“The primary cause of unhappiness is never the situation but your thoughts about it.”- Eckhart Tolle
Whether it’s a missed opportunity, a bad relationship, a choice we should have made or simply something that made us feel dumb, dwelling in regret consumes a large amount of our time and energy. It has been thought, that the reason we regret so many things is because we have an idealized version of ourselves that we wish to live up to at all times.
To put it into perspective, we all think that we are 100% good people and when we do things that don’t reflect the most positive aspects of ourselves, we deem that we’ve fallen short in some way. But, when we can let go of these ideals and embrace the gravity and reality of life, we then free ourselves from the illusion of “perfection”.
So embrace your dark side, it is where your creativity flows from, accept yourself both “good and evil” and find balance between the two.
11.Blaming other people for your problems
Each person in your life is a teacher. Each experience in your life is a lesson. Living is like looking into a mirror– every teacher is you. Every event and ever relationship reflects yourself. Although we do not consciously perceive this, at some level we all know that life shows us what we need to learn.
Learn the lesson and move on. If you didn’t learn the lesson the first time, it comes back around as a new experience a new person and a new circumstance. It comes right back and lands in your lap again, and says, “here… deal with it”- Excerpt from Ether Into the Nemesis
When we blame others for our problems we are shifting the attention away from ourselves and avoiding our own healing. The more we avoid ourselves the larger our problems become and the more we fall into “victim mentality”which can be a very troubling situation…
Source: 12 WAYS YOU ARE UNCONSCIOUSLY LOWERING YOUR OWN VIBRATION | Prepare for Change
“Stay focused on where you want to go in your life and how you want to feel. Don’t worry about the details of what you think life should look like. The Universe is infinitely wiser than we are, with our human point of view. Just know and trust that things will come to you in the perfect order, and in perfect time. We don’t manifest anything that is not part of our Soul’s plan.
You are about to experience a shift in your frequency. A frequency shift offers when the soul is ready for the next part of its journey. However, this does not mean that our human consciousness is necessarily ready. Thing things that alter during this period can be difficult to endure, but you will make it through and be much better for it.
Basically everything will get shut-down. This happens because your energetic engine is getting a complete overhaul and it cannot be left running while it happens. But just note that, one complete, your connection will be stronger than ever.
It’s time to stop looking outside and comparing yourself to others. Your gifts were never intended to function or work exactly the same as another person’s gift. By looking at how others are ‘more’ gifted, or ‘better than you’, you are unintentionally sending energy out to the Universe which says you are ‘less’ than. This action is the very thing that is blocking your gifts from developing to their fullest potential. You cannot compare yourself to anyone else. If you see greatness in someone else, it is because you hold the quality of greatness within you…
Source: You Are About To Experience A Shift In Your Frequency | Galactic Connection
Some of us wonder why we live a life of service to others and service to self has been a second fiddle, always on the sidelines. As a kid at five to twelve, every time our playmate ask for something, anything, I run home to get what he desires. We find happiness, satisfaction and deep fulfillment when we have given something, a gift, a favor, a service to family, friend or an acquaintance. My friend is more advanced of help to family, he assists his father at a young age to fish and sell them to buy necessities for home while I get it from our household to share with friends.
We never tire of giving to help someone, even a new person introduced to us by a friend limited by our meager resources. We favor them with that little attention, that little something, a gift that will make them happy and fulfilled at our expense. As a little child up to the age of 72, this has been my life and even my wife asks me why I do this, give to others, provide and use my limited working time to help others. In a few instances these assistance led to the detriment of my family finance due to trust afforded others who turn out to be a perpetrator or an element of dark beings. I have lived in the most urban of all areas in PH with a college buddy, intimate of friends and the two of us turned victims to people of this type. We had at least three major bad personal investments and a lot minor due to what you may call our “trusting behavior to others”. Our innate trust on others turned sour even at our senior years that cost us part of our retirement provisions.
We lived trying years of perseverance what you call hard work and development of professional skills, practical experience or academic, all these years and we still cultivate new skills today. As a door closes a new window of opportunity opens says my friend, Domingo. As a child, teenager, collegiate student, professional and businessmen, we have been too trusting. My close friend-fraternity brother and myself lived the same lives, educating others as child teacher and university lecturers even funding minor scholarships. We have been benefactors despite our shortage of funds to family and friends and sending them to schools even funding a home for them. We gave gifts that we feel we can afford even at times we have to borrow or sell our personal belongings. We share the same behavior. This must be out of norm our times, this 3d timeline as greed is the number one trait of people I see, all benefits for themselves, manipulation of men, power over others especially those in big business and the practice of profession. The fact is some of my neighbors question my habit of caring and planting trees, caring for birds, animals and why I do it. For me it is but natural to take care of nature as we live with them and earth carry us, our ever loving satellite…
via Service to Others is the Only Way to Unity Consciousness — Prepare for Change
Energy update & Quan Yin Channeling
The word of the day to describe our current times is discombobulated; meaning this energy can be confusing, disconcerting and often frustrating. Many simply feel all over the place – one moment is full of the most incredible bliss and the next moment comes uncertainty and anxiety. The lack of rhythm with this energy has made it a challenge to write about as it changes so quickly. I am going to do my best to summarize what is taking place.
Memories & Emotions Rising
Whether it is through dreams or brief moments of a memory arising, all is coming to the surface. The intensity of this depends on where you are in your process. For some of us it can be the first time we’ve really seen into our depths, felt the sadness and rage. Honor these feelings, allow them to have a voice no matter how ugly they may seem. For others, it’s allowing us to peel back more layers, forgiving and loving ourselves more and more. For myself and some of my clients, the universe has orchestrated events that have showed us where we still have deep hidden wounds even with all the inner work we have done so that we can finally release them. The good news is that we now have the tools to do just that. I asked my guides how to handle the emotions that are rising and was told very clearly that I have a choice I can go into the emotions and relive them or I can choose to see from a higher perspective and let go any sense of wrong doing I feel. It is understanding that being able to see the bigger picture (as much as we can) allows us to walk completely from duality & victimhood to pure personal power; a must for complete soul embodiment…
Source: Jenny Schlitz – Frequencies have Begun Separating | Galactic Connection
With regards to this Time of Transition/Bifurcation and its effect on the sovereign individual, there are various choices most people make, consciously or unconsciously, and to varying degrees (these choices can also overlap):
– You resist the planetary changes underway, and outwardly-project your own internal discomfort onto others and your situations (shadow projection), getting caught up in the trap of blaming, complaining, reactive/mechanical behavior, and victim consciousness – all of which are responses that the Matrix wants (and feeds off) while it drains your own life force and inner power.
– In order to resist the discomfort, you numb yourself with distractions and addictions (anything from drugs, sex, internet, games, and TV, to co-dependent relationships, shopping, work, food, parties, sports, gossip, etc.), creating an artificial “happiness” and more masks so as to avoid feeling the internal friction and unpleasant emotions. This distraction program can also include a spiritual “opiate”: getting hooked on false light/New Age teachings which result in spiritual bypassing and over-estimating your level of embodiment and awareness; or you look for a “quick fix”, a short cut and/or “magic pill” (including psychedelics and medicine plants) which are all very common in today’s fast-food spirituality industry, and that can have detrimental effects on your inner development – making you “dream that you are awake but [you in fact] are still asleep” [Gurdjieff]…
via The Time of Transition and Bifurcation Is Happening Now — Galactic Connection